- Delaying & procrastinating in your business because it shouldbe perfect before you launch...
What if you didn't have to keep pretending that everything is "just fine?"
(FINE AKA - "Falling apart on the Inside with a Nice Exterior"
"You should know better." "You should be farther along." "You’re too...(fill in the blank). You should..."
Sound familiar?
These are some of the whispers
that try to define us.
Listening to these only results
in pain, exhaustion, and heartache.
If any of those whispers have felt true to you…
I have a question.
Is there spiritual overflow in your life—enough joy, peace, and love to spill over into others’ lives?
Or do you feel spiritually dry and depleted, with nothing left to give?
This isn’t about condemnation—it’s about an invitation to curiosity.
Let me tell you why I ask...
If any of those whispers have felt true to you…
I have a question.
Is there spiritual overflow in your life—enough joy, peace, and love to spill over into others’ lives?
Or do you feel spiritually dry and depleted, with nothing left to give?
This isn’t about condemnation—it’s about an invitation to curiosity.
Let me tell you why I ask...
Because I lived in that spiritually barren, joyless, low vitality place for YEARS...
But who do you share that with?
"Hi, I'm a leader in the church. A mentor... and, oh by the way, I feel like a phony. Not growing spiritually, worn out, and weary from trying to please a God who seems impossible to please. (I'm actually not even sure He loves me).
Want to join our Bible study? We meet Tuesday!"
"Hi, I'm a Christian. I'm supposed to have the GOOD NEWS but it doesn't really feel like good news. If I'm honest, I feel like a phony. I'm not growing spiritually. I'm worn out and weary from trying to please a
God who seems impossible to please. (I'm actually not even sure He loves me. Sure everyone else...but me?)
Want to join our Bible study? We meet Tuesday!"
In response to this pain, we re-double our efforts, grab our color-coded sticky tabs,
non-bleed Bible pens, and vow to "do better" and "try harder."
We buckle down on our Spiritual disciplines and determine to not miss a day on our latest Bible reading plan.
With enough effort, surely we're going to figure
this "Christian life thing" out at some point, right?
But then....life happens.
Our best laid plans for the perfect quiet time go out the window,
we yell at our precious children, mess up that reading plan streak, and everything looks bleak.
Is this really as good as life as a Christian can be
(AKA not that great)?
Welcome to life on the Hamster Wheel in The 'Salt Land' of S.T.R.I.V.E.
Jeremiah 17:5-6
"Thus says the Lord: “Cursed is the man who trusts in man and makes flesh his strength, whose heart turns away from the Lord. He is like a shrub in the desert, and shall not see any good come.
Life here is barren,brutal, and we beg for a break!
THE PRESSURE IS RELENTLESS
This sadly is par for the course for many believers who are secretly
miserable, going through the motions, pasting on the weak smiles.
All while feeling like we're the ONLY ones who are not getting our acts together.
But is this the life Jesus intended for us...
joyless and fruitless?
In a word...NO!
"The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly."
JOHN 10:10 ESV
Our inheritance as Daughters of the King is the abundant life.
Including ABUNDANT JOY. Check out this incredible verse...
"I tell you these things that my joy may be in
you and that your joy may be FULL."
JOHN 15:11
(ESV; emphasis mine)
As you may recall "these things" in John 15 are about ABIDING in Jesus.
So, as a result of abiding in Him and His love, we get to have joy.
FULL JOY!!!!
Y'all!! Full joy...not a trickle, a splash, a dash, or just a sprinkle.FULL. JOY.
That's the invitation but what if that's not our experience?
I get it, sister!
That was me for many years.
I understood God's grace for salvation, but I was trying to "live the life"
in my own strength.
I was STRIVING.
HARD.
Gratefully, God didn't leave me in my mess. Through many difficult
and sometimes humiliating yet humbling experiences,
the Lord revealed what I had somehow missed...
the invitation to abide
In my zeal, I somehow missed this crucial lesson that I wasn't supposed
to be able to do ANY of this Christian life apart from Jesus.
I never needed to "just try harder" in my own strength.
The pressure could be OFF.
This is the invitation of GRACE.
What sweet relief. And what JOY results.
Instead of subsisting in The 'Salt Land' of S.T.R.I.V.E., we get to move
to The Lush Land of A.B.I.D.E. as described in Jeremiah 17:7-8.
Jeremiah 17:7-8
"Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose trust is the Lord. He is like a tree planted by water, that sends out its roots by the stream, and does not fear when heat comes, for its leaves remain green, and is not anxious in the year of drought, for it does not cease to bear fruit.”
Life here is not PERFECT but it's PEACEFUL and the PRESSURE is OFF.
How does that sound?
Because this isn't just theory for me.
The Lord has done such a complete work in my life that women who knew me before this grace and abiding revelation, don't know what to make of me!
I'm not the same woman any more! (Praise God, 'cause that other girl was REALLLLY uptight! LOL).
If you want to JOIN ME in leaving The 'Salt Land' of S.T.R.I.V.E. to living in The Lush Land of A.B.I.D.E., I have just the thing!
But first let me tell you what an early reader had to say:
"Wowzers!! Just WOWZERS!!!! Although I knew I was not the only female on this healing journey with God,
I never heard anyone actually put into words what this journey is all about!!!! Nicole has done it beautifully well." - Connie W.
I wrote (from what I am hearing) an engaging, eye-opening, and entertaining book titled...
JOY QUOTIENT:
Raise Your Joy to the
Power of Grace
In this compelling book, part heart-story, part hands-on grace-fueled guide book, we journey across the G.R.A.C.E. Bridge with five women ready to
'cut ties with the lies'
they have been believing so they can walk in complete freedom in Christ.
In the process, each finds new strength, grows in intimacy with the Lord, and experiences JOY to a much greater degree than ever before!
And the best part? I want to give you a freesample so you can dive into the book right away!
Women everywhere are not just reading this book—they’re experiencing it. They’re finding freedom, reclaiming their joy, and walking lighter in His love.
I know this book will empower you to reclaim your God-given identity, take a sledgehammer to shame, quiet the lies, and re-discover
the joy that’s been buried under
busyness and burdens
so you can walk in FULL freedom...
and FULL JOY!
But don't take my word for it!
Hear it from these Kingdom leaders...
And the best part? I want to give you a freesample so you can dive into the book right away!
Women everywhere are not just reading this book—they’re experiencing it. They’re finding freedom, reclaiming their joy, and walking lighter in His love.
I know this book will empower you to reclaim your God-given identity, take a sledgehammer to shame, quiet the lies, and re-discover
the joy that’s been buried under
busyness and burdens
so you can walk in FULL freedom...
and FULL JOY!
But don't take my word for it!
Hear it from these Kingdom leaders...
Michelle Tufford, Founder of No More Dry Ground
Spirit-Filled Girl Talk Podcast Hosts, Sarah Phillipe & Satin Pelfrey
Jenny Oby, RelaxedMarketing.com
Merritt Onsa, Host of Devoted Dreamers Podcast
ACCESS YOUR GIFT BELOW...
A SAMPLE OF "JOY QUOTIENT"
SO YOU CAN MOVE OUT OF THE 'SALT LAND' OF S.T.R.I.V.E.
INTO THE LUSH LAND OF A.B.I.D.E.,
FINALLY LIVE THE ABUNDANT, PRESSURE-OFF, PEACE-FILLED LIFE YOU'VE ONLY
DREAMED OF AND THAT JESUS DIED TO GIVE YOU!
Fill out the form below and you will receive immediate access!
Fill out the form below to receive your sample of the Joy Quotient book then you can dive in and start reading!
You will also be on the waiting list for the official release of the book. Coming VERY SOON!!!
Shae Bynes, Chief Fire Igniter, Author of Grace over Grind and Grace Under Pressure. Check her out here!
Even MORE Kind Words...
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
“The Joy Quotient process is powerful in its simplicity, grounded in truth, and refreshingly practical. I’m so glad she wrote the book.”
Shae Bynes
Chief Fire Igniter, Author Grace over Grind and Grace Under Pressure
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
Joy is a Superpower!
Choosing Joy, regardless of what our temporary circumstances look like, opens doors of deep faith and trust.
Choosing Joy is like having a new pair of glasses. Kingdom lenses.
Nicole Roth has an anointing and favor to help women awaken to the JOY that’s always been there.
She has an ability to cut through the noise and clutter of overthinking and over analyzing. To help us simplify, she makes the steps to choosing Joy practical and their results - very powerful!
Grab this book and be blessed !
Gail Root
Kingdom Business Coach, Author, Podcast Host
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
Joy Quotient invites you into the powerful stories of women who have walked their own joy journeys with the Lord and found transformation on the other side. Nicole Roth beautifully reveals that breakthrough is possible and that joy can be discovered in every season, no matter the circumstances. With her gift for bringing truth to light, she moves the reader from imagining joy as a possibility to embracing it as reality—and we truly get to enJOY that journey through every page.
Kristin Kurtz
Founder of New Wings Coaching, Prophetic Life Coach, Hope Unlocked Podcast Host
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
If you've ever thought that you were not good enough or didn't deserve to be loved or valued, then this book is for you. If you feel like your entire world is spinning and you're overwhelmed and can't get everything done, then this book is for you. If you feel like you're the only one that can do the job and do it well, then this book is for you. Nicole moves the reader through a proven process from striving to abiding. She gives practical activities to help her reader take life changing steps. If the cry of your heart is to know true joy, know God more and walk in the fullness of Christ, then read on, Sister. You are in the right place.
Judy Fulmer
College Consultant and Founder, College PrepXcel LLC
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
"This powerful book is a gift for anyone longing to break free from the chains of shame and step into the fullness of God’s presence where true joy can be found. Rooted in Scripture and born from deep personal experience, it offers practical, hope-filled guidance that is both simple and profound. Nicole's heart for others and passion for Jesus shine through every word. This will undoubtedly be life-changing for you as it has for me!"
Lenee Pezzano
Author of You Wil Make Mistakes & Host of the Redeemed Perfectonist Podcast
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
It feels like Nicole wrote this book for me. Her Joy Quotient is a very practical way to let go of the lies we’ve been believing and find the truth and joy in our relationship with God. Her real life examples and easy to follow steps make this book worth the read. We talked about the book you now hold in your hands on Episode 7 of The Invisible Illness Club, but it is so much better than I expected.
Aprl Aramanda
Host of The Invisible Illness Club Podcast
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
"Nicole Roth has absolutely nailed something that the church desperately needs to hear. If you've ever felt like you're running on a hamster wheel of "try harder" Christianity, constantly performing, perfecting, and people-pleasing your way to God's love, this book is going to wreck you in the best possible way. Nicole demolishes shame with the sledgehammer of grace, showing us how those "I am not enough" lies have been stealing our joy, our health, and honestly, our very destinies. Through her own messy, beautiful journey and the stories of five incredible women, she reveals how to stop hating ourselves for our humanness and start living like the beloved sons and daughters we actually are. This is Holy Spirit-breathed revelation that will literally change the trajectory of your life. Seriously, this book is about to set a lot of captives free."
Mitch London
Author - 'Gravel Grit & Glory, Navigating Life's Wilderness' - Founder of The SQ Edge
JOY QUOTIENT BACK STORY
Like most things the Lord teaches me, this came out of a place of pain and personal need.
I was on an epic hiking trip to Zion National Park when one of my daughters and I got into a tiff. My daughter spouted off that the reason they don't tell me "everything" is because I will just "judge them."
Her words cut like a knife. Within minutes I was in the bathtub slinking deeper and deeper into what I call a shame storm.
Thoughts quickly spiraled into:
- What a horrible mother you are!
- How do you expect them to come to you if this is their experience?
- They would be better off with another mother who loved them better.
All in a matter of 5 minutes, y'all! It was BAD!!
Gratefully I got ahold of my thoughts. I said, "Nicole you TEACH this stuff. Stop it!"
And I did.
I began to cry out to the Lord and ask Him to help me renew my mind to His truth. Essentially, I came boldly before the throne of grace.
I confessed these patterns of judgment and repented (went in a new direction) agreeing with God that that was sin and no good fruit was resulting.
He showed me that my identity is separate from my behavior and although this sin pattern did not bring about the desired outcome we both wanted, my identity as a beloved daughter was secure.
He poured out His love for me and before long I returned to my daughters with a renewed mind and spirit. We reconciled and went on with the trip.
As I hiked the Narrows a couple days later I was blown away by God's depth of love and grace for me. He began to show me these "equations" for joy - both joyfulness and joylessness.
Once back home I began to practice the steps He walked me through. I was astounded! I finally had a practical tool not only for myself but something to use with my daughters. This would help them renew their minds to God's truth and experience His grace while going deeper in the truth of His word. Win:win!
I knew I had to share this with others so I began writing both a book and a workbook.
Both resources are designed to help you walk in God's grace, seeing yourself through God's eyes, and renewing your mind to God's truth!